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About VYL

John Thomas “Kooz” Kuczmarski and  Validate Your Life Coaching staff both operate on 4 key areas of development.  We create personal and professional success in the areas of

    During our coaching processes and sessions and workshops we may phase completely into just Health with a client, but organizational is pretty important, and then we noticed the pattern of connection between relationships and one’s career.  There was an interconnected inter-relationship between these areas.

    Change pretty much happens in any one of those areas.  There’s a mathematically evolved relationships between those 4 categories.  You move forward in ONE of those 4 areas and the other 3 “magically” advance.  Of course, at Validate Your Life, we don’t believe in magic.  We believe in causality, observational details, and what works.  And out of all our workshops, clients, and coachings EVERY single time a massive breakthrough in ONE of the four categories occurs, the other areas open up, and the client succeeds.  Permanent and escalating success evolves when an improvement in any one of these four areas gets installed.  Validate Your Life installs that success.

    In other words, if you devote 3 days of your life to, for example, Organization & Productivity coaching,  and really do that, and you do everything possible to get organized, it’s mathematically guaranteed that in having 25% of that life category complete, the relationships you want in life will emerge, the career connections and money you’ve sought will advance, and your health goals of achieving that dream physique, fitness, and nutrition you’ve always wanted will simply happen.

    The same is true for targeting ONE of the any other four categories.

    When you advance one of the four critical areas of development, you boost, galvanize, and map out simple and easy progress in all of the other three areas simultaneously.  This is logical, makes sense, seems intuitively right, and has supporting evidence.  This works. Focusing on the four categories is your answer to evolve your professional and personal life.

    Therefore, just like our Coaching sessions and workshops, Validate Your Life Blog articles comes in four flavors.  You guessed it.  That’s right.  We’ve devoted the message of each article to targeting and advancing one of those four areas.  If you feel you are lacking or maybe want to polish up of those four areas is lacking, just read those articles or choose to get coaching in that area!

    Also, be sure to check out validateyourlife.com as we’ve got quality products to help you in your endeavors!

    Detailed Areas that John Kooz and Validate Your Life Coaching Addresses

    • Phasing Out
    • Career
      • Financial Goals
        • Income MileStones
        • Debt Removal
        • Earning Learning
      • Search Engine Optimazation (SEO)
      • Page Rank Acceleration
      • Career Planning and Vision
      • Changing Careers
      • Downshifting
    • Relationships
      • Romance Coaching
      • Intimacy Fulfillment
      • Sex Goals Dialogue
      • Chemistry and Ideal Group Dynamic Coaching
      • Long-term Relationship Clarity Coaching
      • Date and Pick-up (PUA)
    • Health
      • Addictions
      • Nutrition Analysis
      • Vegan Nutrition
      • Fitness Acceleration
      • Muscle Building
      • Cardio Coaching
      • Scientific Biological and Anatomical Clarity
      • “Neuroses Dissolution”
      • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
      • Anxiety
      • Depression
    • Organization
      • Email Clutter
      • Paper-based and Electronic Filing Strategies
      • House Clutter
      • Inbox Zero
      • GTD
      • Clutter Overwhelm
      • Material Possession Liberation
      • “New ToDo” System
      • Project Management
      • “Overwhelm” Tricks and Techniques
      • Essential Principles of Organization
      • POPP

    The Validate Your Life Coaching Model

    Details on our updated coachign model, complete with our diagram will be posted here shortly.

    What is Coaching….Really?

    Coaching is the exact opposite of disillusionment, “product placement”, and delusions from religion, media, and spam. I spend YEARS of my life writing books on discovering exactly what I want to know and who I want to be and I discover that! I was interested in spirituality and when I was, it was exciting but various things (prosetylization in Costa Rica on multiple occasion, reading up on cults and witnessing identical similarities between cults and major religions etc) emerged and I evolved out of that. Now science and atheism are rivetting. TRULY rivetting. But the truth of the matter is. They’ve ALWAYS been rivetting! I’ve ALWAYS been this nerdy, scientific atheist. I watch home videos of me as a kid and I see that and know that. “Devout Atheism” (:D) is what’s true for me. Kiekegaard says “I must find a truth that’s true for me”. Well, Soren, I did just that and it’s refreshing and incredibly MASSIVELY empowering!! Wow. So empowering to honor my genuine LOVE for science! Three kinds of symbiotic relationships, Stomata on plants, cellular respiration I love that high-tech jargon and better yet the fact that it’s linked to real things in nature. But physics is like some of the most absolute, fabulous truths of all tied in with the precision of math. I’m very interested in physics especially. Sweet!!

    What The Coaching Will be Like

    The flavor of the coaching experience with John and Validate Your Life utilizes

    • Enthusiasm
    • Creativity
    • A mathematical-like level of NLP-trained precision with language
    • A scrutiny for discerning the incredibly unique and fascinating situations that arise in coaching
    • An eagerness and earnestness towards the life, career, relationships, and health outcomes that emerge in the coaching process
    • Thoughtfully calculated and precise questions
    • A noteworthy expediency and swiftness in getting things done

    Combined with the aforementioned abilities, I deliver questions and anecdotes that elicit your strengths, trigger solutions, and catalyze confusion into clarity in order to galvanize success. “A friend is one before whom I may think aloud.” — Emerson I’ve been (proudly) described as getting “too excited” about achievement.  I know that a victory-based celebration is vital and important to continued fulfilment. The Validate Your Life “schematic” for achievement is:

    • Consolidate all concerns, goals, problems, desires
    • Consistency in creating control, absolving judgments, and generating forward momentum
    • Accessibility in installing necessary tools and resources
    • Completion and Victory (C&V) to victoriously knowledge achievements!

    You’ll end the coaching session with a smile on your face and a refreshed zeal to the self-discovery of your day, week, month, and greater longevity. “Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear – not absence of fear.” — Mark Twain The overall “vibe” of Validate Your Life coaching is a galvanizing exchange where YOU are in the pilot-seat; where YOU are the architect who crafts the blueprint for your achievements; and where YOU adroitly navigate yourself to achievement by accessing your own resources, strengths, and a few tools, tips, and activations that I deliver. Furthermore, we’ll likely ascend to the 50,000 foot conversations that trigger life-purpose and identity considerations, or we may maintain a cruising altitude of 30,000 feet where the next 3-5 years of your life will be the focus, or we will jump right in to the 10,000 feet or runway level obstacles that you’ll shatter this week and what challenges you’ll look back upon victoriously this same day. I care deeply about your well-being and am invested in the infinite level of success you envision, that you deserve, and that you will experience. Although I am not inexperienced, one of my main unique qualities as a coach, is my youth.  I am a younger coach; and I pull from a much different generational background from most other coaches.  Additionally, my highly technical coaching methods and functions pull from my experiences in:

    • Marathoning, martial arts instruction, surf instruction, and biathalons and triathalons.
    • Rigorous academic study in over 7 institutions, Hollywood acting training, coaching training,
    • Prolific book-writing, infinitely copious journaling, personal Life-scribe photo-scrutiny
    • Working as a career consultant, Marvel spiderman marketer, Italian restaurant host, webmaster, entrepreneur, and more
    • Arduous adventures in traveling the globe, researching spider monkeys in the tropical yucatan rainforest, surviving out of cars, tents, homes, apartments, boats, airplanes, and coffeeshops, not really knowing where I’m from, reading to the blind, being primarily an autodidactic polymath, having a love and need for clarity, voyaging at sea, and hiking in the mountains of 4 continents.
    Prepare to increase and maximize your inter and intra-personal knowledge, while engaging in self-discovery that burgeons useful, applicable knowledge in your career, relationships, health, and productivity.

    The Telecommunication Arrangement

    If you’re in the US, I can call you for free (no phone bill).  If you’re in another part of the world, we can work out a simple phone contact plan (usually with skype). The phone rates are on my tab; the coaching rates, those are on your tab!

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