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Stardumb 1: Resentment & Rancor

Disclaimer: If you are not a celebrity, read on. This is for you. You're about to be educated in whatever it is that's preventing you from growing. If you are a celebrity, read on, as well. You might discover some insightful information for and/or regarding your fan group.

Acknowledgements: We are neither megastar celebs nor a nameless unknowns. But we are people who have studied the relationship between the "rich and famous" and the "not so opulent, not so eminent" for a very long time.

Celebrities are a fascinating species. To some they are superficial, but,in actuality, they are incredibly real. They become famous because of their insightful, original energy.

There's a lot of loathing -- jealous, unrighteous indignation, to be exact -- towards the star studs in the limelight. Men and women who've achieved great fame through acting, finance, politics, philanthropy (whatever the social stratosphere), always carry the burden of destructive fans. Destructive fans sit back and watch. They don't try. They don't engage themselves. They build up anger and hatred for celebrities with all the clout or attention.

But you have that energy of fame, fortune, honesty, bravery, clarity -- whatever it is you seek -- already inside of you.

Three emotional blockages decelerating, discouraging, and disowning your dormant essence:

1. 1.Resentment and Rancor
   

2. 2.Motivational Stoppage
   

3. 3.Fear of Stardom
   

We'll talk about motivational stoppage and fear of stardom later, but for now, let's focus on your first impediment to being well-known yourself.

Resentment, sometimes to the extreme of rancor, prevents you from rising above the status quo and surfing the insightful energy.

Take Ms. Hilton's cell phone which was hacked to make public, information -- pictures and contacts -- originally designated as private. If your goal was to make her less famous, your agenda is counter-productive. Exposing more of her expands her cultural prominence! That fame wasn't her choice; like Prince Charles, it was something she inherited, and the obligation in which it entails, she has handled with poise and grace. Here's one few know. Did you know Tom Cruise wanted to be a priest? Yep, instead of going ecclesiastical, he devoted 10 years of his life to film at age 18, which spawned off his enormous acting career. The commitment to his acting career opened up a preaching to a much wider audience with a similar awe of spiritual sincerity.

Jack Nicholson's family duped him into thinking his mother was his sister and his grandparents were is immediate parents! Talk about a tough reality check for a 12-year old. The point is that these celebrities, wether born into the limelight or working up from rock bottom, are so well-known because of their clear, electric energy to overcome, not wallow, and to believe.

So abandon your resentment for these people and recognize how incredibly challenging and inspiring it is to be a celebrity. These people are role models who cultivate incredibly insightful frequencies of energy. It's easy to be the status quo; it's daunting to be unique. They are who they are because of the lucid living, their engaged personality, their commitment to empowerment and most importantly, their ability to not be discouraged when you, the status quo, tells them they can't, they won't, or there's no way, they're not good enough. They face the adversity of that all-too-frequent ridicule, prove you wrong, and then instead of gloating, they simply glide by and experience the illuminating energy of being a celebrity, but with activity and dynamism.

Many people say celebrities are cookie cutters, but that logic is flipped, warped, and wrong! How could carbon-copies be treated with reverence and regard? Celebrities are the real thing. Cookie cutters are the status quo, the norm, the ladies and gents who say "I can't" every other brainwave. Celebrities have gone through the trouble of training their brain for success.

The celebrities are there to pull you forward, not ridicule your anonymity. Move beyond your resentment by releasing the source of your rancor. You're pissed because you witness people achieving great heights of success of which you've only dreamed. But change your relationship with the success of the Rolling Stones, or Paris Hilton, Lance Armstrong, or Donald Trump. When most people see enormous success in others, their mental wiring malfunctions and triggers a response of jealousy. Stop that circuitry. You can do it. Instead of being subdued by a twang of resentment, feel a shock of encouragement. Understand that they did it, so I can do it even better!

You don't like people who hold resentment. We like people who hold joy. Celebrities are magnetic because of the joy they hold and energetically share in their life.

If you can cultivate clear, electric energy, not wallow, and perpetually believe more often than not, mathematically, you've just experienced your most auspicious windfall. Contemplate this. If you believe, overcome, and inspire yourself and others more than 50% of the time (the other fifty you're not doing those good things), you'll inevitably be moving forward. Those advancements create motivational momentum, which brings us to the second blockage, Motivational Stoppage. But given that you've developed a way to have a greater than average amount of electric energy, capacity to overcome, and belief, you've dissolved your first barrier. Congratulations and Godspeed.

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Stardumb 2: Motivational Stoppage

When the train is on the tracks, ready to go, and you're inspired, holding no resentment but you, for some reason, aren't moving. You've got motivational stoppage. The cause of motivational stoppage is hazy, but the symptoms are clear; unwillingness, uncertainty, undirected, and stopped!

You overcome this blockage simply by doing something that physically energizes you. This psychological jolt transcribes into an emotional occurrence, and then sequences off into a mental encouragement that really gets you going. This "jolt" could be anything from exercising to reading a book to writing in a journal, whatever it is that works for you.

The hardest part is getting on the track, but you already did that by overcoming resentment and rancor. Double congratulations. Your only concern is what to do when events in your reality actually aim to make you feel successful.

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Stardumb 3 Fear of Stardumb

Here's the Catch-22 if you think you're prestigious, or fast, or intelligent, most likely you'll short-circuit yourself with gloating arrogance. Pride and confidence is quick and effective; arrogance and boasting is slow and cumbersome. You want to feel your confidence, but then immediately let that go. You can't linger on your accomplishments. Relinquish all doubt and then kind of "tuck away" your confidence. The only thing your past accomplishments are good for, is providing the historical proof of what you did so you can do more.

Fear of stardumb occurs when you're at the depot. The train has arrived and all you have to do is get off. But you think to yourself. I did all this work. Went through all these insane obstacles, broke through so many psychological barriers to get right here. What if it wasn't worth it? What if all that wasn't leading up to a victory, but just more work? Then most people just stay in "work-mode" and never celebrate and own their prestige and success they've earned. This is the last transition because it is transitioning out of struggle. All your work up until this point has been arduous, struggle, problematic. The future certainly will be challenging, but it will be perpetually fun and never crippling.

You overcome fear of stardom by relinquishing your work, and most importantly your grievances. Many people fail to get through this petty final blockage because they feel emotionally shattered towards people that caused them problems in the past. This turns into resentment and then the cycle, to a degree, starts over. You relinquish your greivance by believing that holding onto the grudges allows those that brought you down or tried to sink your ship to win. They also win if you throw fits and get pissed at all your work. The way you overcome fear of stardom is simply moving forward and enjoying and loving your life. That's ultimate victory. That's ceasing to be the victim; that's generating tremendous illuminating joy.

Now that joy is yours; you've got what people admire. Continue to experience your own happiness. But the most important lesson out of this whole thing is to have love and success in life. Love is passion as success is to progress. If people just know your name, you're brilliant at establishing a facade, getting known creating an image. That external progress, image, success has nothing to do with the internal passion, identity, and love. It's PIS and PIL and you need them both to be successfully happy and fulfilled.

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